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Human Ventures
Nov 15, 2022
Esther Perel: The Best Questions to Ask a Potential Cofounder Have Nothing to Do With Work
Why do so many co-founders develop strained relationships? It’s not necessarily the stress of the startup environment, misaligned visions, or incompatible communication styles. It’s a failure to understand the nuanced dynamics of partnership in the first place. The truth is that how we work together is about so much more than work.
In my almost four decades as a therapist for pairs of all kinds, I’ve found there are seven key verbs that shape how we engage with ourselves and others: to ask, take, receive, give, acknowledge, refuse, and play. The below questions are a starter guide to understanding your experiences around each of these verbs, as well as your business partner’s. Take turns asking them and you’ll create space for profound understanding of each other’s relationship dynamics.